How to Bring a Vibrator into Your Friends with Benefits

If you are currently finding yourself in a friends with benefits situation, you may be wondering if and when would be a good time to * spice things up * - especially if this is a partner you have had for a good amount of time. Heck, even if it’s a new thing, it can be fun to add some ~ good vibrations ~ by bringing in your vibrator, dildo, or sex toys.

 
 

Cosmopolitan recently wrote an article on How to be Friends with Benefits and we want to make sure you are also able to bring in your vibrator. In order to make sure your clit and g-spot are being taken care of by your partner - but also by your toys if that’s what helps - is COMMUNICATION.

 
 

Once you have your FWB boundaries set, it’s time to communicate your needs so you can find pleasure and help close the orgasm gap. You’ll also be paying it forward to any others your partner may encounter in the future. Here are some tips/conversation topics:

  • Spend some time showing them what you like and how you like to be touched. You can reciprocate by asking how they like to be touched.

  • Ask if they have ever used a vibrator on a partner or have ever seen a partner use a vibrator. Either way, show them your favorite and how you like to play with it.

 
 

As always, be safe and have fun!